Thank you! I've been putting together the pieces of this post for quite a while.

As for linking, well, it wasn't meta-warehouse, but some other similar com that someone linked one of my posts, and I got invaded by all manner of angry and rude people. Not an experience I want to repeat. And given how utterly divisive Team Cap versus Team Iron Man has been and continues to be, linking this post would be as sensible as kicking a Bilgesnipe.